I just really love how Paulo Coelho thinks, writes, and expresses a lot of stuff. This particular post in his blog (http://paulocoelhoblog.com) just hits closest to my heart and I just had to share with you a link to it.
Article 1 – All lovers, of any sex, are alerted that love, besides being a blessing, is also something extremely dangerous, unpredictable and capable of causing serious damage. Consequently, anyone planning to love should be aware that they are exposing their body and soul to various types of wounds, and that they shall not be able to blame their partner at any moment, since the risk is the same for both.
See the entire post at this link: http://paulocoelhoblog.com/2012/02/23/wounded-in-love-2/